A person’s harmony with himself, harmony in relationships is personal happiness. Do you often think about how the atmosphere of your home affects it? This influence is huge. Home is our haven: from there we go out into the world every morning, returning to rest and gain strength. For a home to be a safe haven, it is necessary to maintain healthy energy in it. Let's figure out what things can interfere with this.
Extra geometry
The way housing is decorated affects the state of a person’s psyche. It is worth carefully selecting colors and shapes for home design. Calm or bright, but natural shades and rounded lines evoke a feeling of comfort and relaxation. Straight and cut lines and angles cause aggression and unnecessary concentration in the home rear.
Dirty mirror
It is believed that a mirror is an ordinary object.
But we see ourselves in it, leaving the house and returning back. Our reflection sets us up for a productive day. This is as long as it is clean, well lit and reflects beautiful things. If we see stains or smudges, dirty linen or shoes, this emphasizes the bruises under the eyes, and the face takes on an unhealthy tone. What a good mood we can talk about.
Keep your home clean.
Trash
Old furniture that has been waiting for years to be repaired. She hints at your inadequacy. It prevents you from bringing something new into your home. Throw it away without regret!
A pile of clothes that will no longer be worn because they are too small or out of fashion.It constantly reminds you that you have gained weight and become older. It gives the illusion of a full wardrobe, but you have nothing to wear. But you can’t buy a new one, because... nowhere to put it. Yes, and it’s a pity for the money spent. Donate your clothes or take them to a thrift store, it's better to do something useful than have a negative impact on your self-esteem.
Grandma's set collecting dust on the top shelf of the dressing room. Study the antiques market, you may be able to sell it profitably before it breaks.
Get rid of everything you haven't used for more than 6 months. Declutter your home and your mind.
Smell
The smell of each house corresponds to its energy. It consists of the aroma of cosmetics used and food being prepared. Make sure it's pleasant. After cooking, ventilate the apartment, do not accumulate garbage and rubbish. The sense of smell has a profound impact on our well-being and desire to live an active life.
Unfinished business
Things stuck “in progress” do not allow you to relax. They “hang over your soul” and do not allow you to move towards the intended changes. Hire a handyman to complete the repairs, finally go through the boxes left after the move, ask your sister for forgiveness. You will free your thoughts and home from unnecessary garbage.
Photos and letters from the past
Not all relationships are for life. If you plan to improve your personal life, get rid of any reminders of the past: photographs, letters, gifts. Burn it, give it away, sell it. By keeping the past close to you, you involuntarily indulge in memories, dreams of the possibility of returning everything. The brain has no time to work on the future.If you are in a new relationship, imagine how a man will feel when he finds a picture of you in the arms of someone else. Problems are inevitable.
This applies not only to relationships with the opposite sex. Memories of an ex-girlfriend with whom you broke up very badly, a pile of documents of a seriously ill relative that have lost their power. Some keep photos from the funerals of loved ones ...
Free your personal space from these things.
Things from childhood
Childhood is an amazing time that affects later life. However, you should not carry around numerous toys and diaries. They will take up space and, most likely, will never be useful. Feelings and dreams are what you need to carry with you into adulthood.
Each thing has energy. We can be in love with some of them. But they should give us strength and not interfere with communication with people, ourselves, relaxation. And not to deprive the opportunity to live a full life. A happy life. Filter the things that surround you.
Throw away your own property, dear. And, if possible, let me know where you will throw it away. With skillful hands, you can make wonderful things out of what you consider junk.And if you don’t know how, at least learn to write interesting and independent things.
I like it, I need to throw away the trash
I completely agree with the author of the article. As F. Ranevskaya said: “The main thing is to live a living life, and not rummage through the back streets of memory.”
So you need to throw it away, but what others take will not bring negativity?